It’s been a year since the passing of the legendary Maya Angelou, a phenomenal woman, who inspired me with her wisdom and words. She was an author, a poet, a civil rights activist and a playwright. President Barack Obama described her as “one of the brightest lights of our time”. Like many others, I was introduced to Maya Angelou through her words. Books like ‘I know why caged birds sing’ and poems like ‘Still I Rise’ have had such a powerful impact. Her words and poetry were an electrifying gift to my spirit. Words that were so powerful, she was able to express the inner depths of feelings that I could relate to as a young girl. For many, Maya Angelou was a poet and writer who experienced abuse, pain and suffering. She wrote about being a poor, black girl, an outcast and a misfit in society. She wrote about living in fear and sexual violence. Crucially, what she wrote transcended all the negativity and she was able to use it to set others free. Her poignant words continue to resonate with me, “It’s one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself, to forgive. Forgive everybody”
When I reflect back on her life, her legacy is clear. Maya Angelou did not confine herself to just one audience. Her words have become universal, across races, genders and ages. She was able to communicate a message of great strength, hope and love. Legacy is something I talk about a lot, and the more I think about it, Mayo Angelou’s legacy to me, is one of pride. She was one of the first female writers that got my attention. She gave me the courage to exist in a world where being a woman of colour is still met with all kinds of glass ceilings. Along with my mother, she showed me that it was ok for a young black girl to dream big. This gave me permission to not be afraid to be different. That same pride allows me to stand tall as a strong authentic black woman in my own voice.
I could easily fill this blog with her famous sayings such as “Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud”. But the one that stands out to me, that I know to be true, and is one that reflects how I try to live my own life is– “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel”. These wise words have given me such insight over the years.
So a year on, I’d like to say thank you to Maya Angelou for your wise words, and all you have given to me and hopefully other little black girls. We will keep the legacy going and keep rising.